Melissa Kester, LMFT

Melissa Kester

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT

Accepting clients paying out of pocket or who have PPO plans other than Aetna for daytime appointments (slots for Aetna clients are full).



Young adults / college students (18 - 24)
Seniors (65+)


Mon: 10:00am-8:00pm
Tue: 10:00am-3:00pm
Wed: 10:00am-8:00pm
Thu: 9:00am-2:00pm
Fri: Closed
Sat: Closed
Sun: Closed

Specialties & expertise

  • Couples counseling

  • Anger management

  • Relationships

  • Individuals healing from narcissistic abuse

  • Early childhood wounds

  • Mood disorders

  • Life transitions

  • Male trauma

  • Life-cycle events

  • Pregnancy & postpartum mental health

Professional statement

Melissa Kester is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in Midtown Manhattan specializing in couples therapy, anger management, infidelity, mood disorders, life transitions, and trauma. As an expert in couples counseling, she helps partners disarm reactive defenses, improve communication, and rekindle intimacy and trust. She is passionate about helping partners explore their unique relationship dynamics and develop new skills to deepen bonds. Among couples, she especially enjoys working with expecting and new parents dealing with perinatal and peripartum mood disorders.

Melissa also works with individuals navigating trauma recovery, and especially enjoys supporting male survivors of sexual abuse. She utilizes an integrative approach, to help clients develop coping skills to tackle immediate challenges, while also gaining greater insight into their inner world.

Thoughtful and receptive, Melissa is committed to creating a safe environment for clients to productively work through obstacles and develop a greater sense of emotional well-being. Her office is conveniently located a short walk from Grand Central.


Couples counseling – Addressing relationship challenges and life transitions; strengthening communication and feelings of security, desire, connection, and love
Anger management – Addressing sudden outbursts of anger or sustained resentment; developing healthy anger expression and outlets
Relationships – Understanding one’s wants and needs in relationships; exploring patterns of interaction, addressing concerns, and strengthening satisfaction in relationships and dating
Mood disorders – Depression, dysthymia (mild depression), bipolar disorder, hormone-related mood issues, i.e. Premenstrual Dysphoric Disorder (PMDD) and postpartum depression, adjustment disorder with depression
Life transitions – Coping with difficult or impactful life changes, such as moving to a new area, relationship transitions, child rearing, or career changes; learning self-care to better manage resulting stress
Male trauma – Coping and healing after threatening or scary events, such as witnessing accidents or experiencing sexual, verbal, emotional, or physical abuse
Early childhood wounds
Life-cycle events
Pregnancy & postpartum mental health
– Addressing issues specific to women and families during the pregnancy and postpartum period, including postpartum depression and anxiety

General expertise

Depression – Providing support and promoting healing through hopelessness, low motivation and energy, sadness, irritability, sleep disturbance, and loss of interest and pleasure in life
LGBTQIA and sexuality topics – Exploring topics of sexuality, gender, and identity; coping with discrimination and oppression; navigating relationship, family, and cultural challenges
Parenting – Helping parents develop and implement strategies to address challenges that arise throughout childrearing; managing stress and increasing support
Perinatal mental health – Addressing issues specific to women and families during the pregnancy and postpartum period, including postpartum depression and anxiety
Post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) – Healing painful experiences and memories from the past
Stress management – Strengthening effective ways of coping with the stress of life and change; managing expectations of self and others


Melissa is not in-network with any insurances.

Read about the benefits of seeing an out-of-network provider here.

Out-of-pocket fees

  • Initial/ongoing sessions: $225/session (50min)

Sliding scale: A sliding scale of $80 - $125 is offered to clients who need a reduced fee to receive therapy. Madison MFT is also a training practice and offers discounted rates to see their interns.

Therapist's note: Melissa can assist with billing to receive reimbursement from your insurance company if you are seeking out-of-network sessions.

Message to clients

"The therapy room is seen as your safe space where you can come and release the weight you have been holding. Melissa seeks to be a receptive and unbiased resource. She is committed to working collaboratively with you towards healing in a thoughtful, present and emotionally focused manner. By paying attention to the patterns that may prevent you from creating the life story you desire, she looks to co-create with you a new map towards healing."

Treatment approaches

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)In cognitive behavioral therapy, you work with a therapist in a structured way, attending a limited number of sessions. Cognitive behavioral therapy helps you become aware of inaccurate or negative thinking, so you can view challenging situations more clearly and respond to them in a more effective way. (learn more)
Contemplative PsychotherapyContemplative Psychotherapy is a branch of therapy that integrates Eastern Buddhist philosophy and practice with the clinical traditions of modern Western psychology and is rooted in the belief that all people are granted the internal wisdom necessary to heal from pain.
Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT/Tapping)Emotional Freedom Techniques (also known as "EFT" or "Tapping") targets energy imbalances that may be causing painful physical or emotional symptoms through a series of gentle tapping with the fingertips. EFT is used for a broad spectrum of challenges that have an underlying emotional cuase, and aims to heal the root ailment by increasing energy flow throughout the body. (learn more)
Family SystemsFamily systems theory views the family as an emotional unit and uses systems thinking to describe the complex interactions in the unit. Family system therapy may be used to address conflict stemming from the family unit by working on a client's ability to maintain individuality while maintaining emotional contact with the group. (learn more)
Internal Family SystemsIFS is a type of therapy that views the mind as a combination of relatively discrete subpersonalities each with its own viewpoint and qualities that interact with one another. IFS aims to understand how these collections of subpersonalities are organized and promote harmony among them. (learn more)
Mindfulness PracticesMindfulness practices include but are not limited to developing awareness, attention, and remembering. In mindfulness-informed therapy, clients develop tools to become aware of what is occurring within and around them, so they can begin to untangle from mental preoccupations and difficult emotions. Self-acceptance and compassion are also core elements of mindfulness-informed therapy. (learn more)
Psychoanalytic TherapyPsychoanalytic therapy tends to look at experiences from early childhood to see if these events have affected the individual’s life, or potentially contributed to current concerns. This form of therapy is considered a long-term choice and can continue for weeks, months or even years depending on the depth of the concern being explored. Psychoanalytic therapy aims to make deep-seated changes in personality and emotional development. (learn more)
Relational Life TherapyRelational life therapy is a form of couples counseling that aims to help partners resolve conflicts, develop personal accountability, improve communication, and foster intimacy within their relationship.
Sensorimotor therapySensorimotor Psychotherapy is a body-centered approach that aims to treat the somatic symptoms of unresolved trauma. Traumatic experiences may become trapped deep within the body, and therapists trained in this modality can help an individual begin to heal by helping that person re-experience, in a safe environment, the physical sensations associated with a traumatic event. (learn more)

Education and work experience

Madison MFT, 2009 - Present
Midtown MFT, 2006 - 2009

Hofstra University, MA in MFT, 2005
SUNY New Paltz, BA, 2002